Tuesday, March 1, 2011

19.

each and everyone of us can be replaced. this may be sad, harsh, but it's true, whether we like it or not.

we love to think that for our friends we're (and they're) irreplaceable. I also used to think that people very close to me can never be replaced. but if I learned anything over the past few years - everything can happen. and you can lost people, you were sure you never lose. first time is painful, really hard. second time you're too tired to put up a fight, later you wish you had. third time, 4 years after second, you're too old to change and demand somebody else to change. maybe you're trying to determine where in 5 stages of grief (over lost friend) are you now. and you don't know, you have absolutely no idea. you don't recall bargaining and depression, is it possible to skip from denial and anger straight to acceptance?

tbc?

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